The question was posed why do guys like Lesbian chicks? Now well I don't think this is a question of character and personality traits, it boils down to the fantasy in the male perspective. The question speaks volumes, but I'll condense this and present it as the abridged version. This conversation can be heard in any part of the hormonal western world, and I want to present an analogy, how best I describe this. If you can go to Baskin Robbins, get a cone with one scoop of your favorite flavor, why not double up on that flavor? Make it two scoops. I love women, I respect women, but above all if you gave me the option to have a double scoop experience, I wouldn't say no. I hope that people do not get the wrong impression, I don't merely view lesbians as a fantasy waiting to happen, no, it is a females sexual preference and it doesn't bother me one bit. Women just like men are people above all but that hasn't gotten through to most people of the world given that it's 2010 and that this sort of behavior has existed for as long as, well....for lack of better words along time.
Unfortunately, like many of my friends, pornography was the first exposure I had to the lesbian sexual aspect. It was unfortunate because we developed a false understanding of women who date women and we couldn't understand why, what, who or how. It took me a long time to understand that it wasn't a man that turned women that "way" and I could not sway them to jump on the straight man saddle and turn them "back". I think its sexy when women make out but they aren't doing it for my enjoyment, and believe me...its rude to stare. I want to be clear in that I am not looking to objectify Lesbians or homosexuality. It took some maturity on my part to put things into perspective. We can accept the notion and the fantasy but were does it skew?
If we can accept the fantasy then people need to accept the reality. Just like life isn't Hollywood, all hetero couples do not look like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, all lesbian couples don't look like the fantasy we replay in our heads. The reality is Rosie O'Donnell. Ellen DeGeneres and a good percentage of early Lilith Faire attendees, I joke about the last part, but really anyone. If you choose to objectify or not, its your choice, but think about it when someone does ask you, why do you like lesbian chicks, its honest to be honest. I come from the school of, "If it's not hurting anybody, it doesn't bother me."
I am a friend to the community. I don't wear shirts that say, "This is what a lesbian looks like," but I am a man and I would be lying to you if I said I didn't have that fantasy. I'm human. If I can leave, you, the reader with anything, I gauge whether I like lesbian chicks using the same criteria I would for anyone else, are you cool? What's your music selection like? Are you an asshole? You like Whiskey? And do you like poop jokes?